I used to hang out with my friends all the time before marriage. Naturally, once I got married, I wanted to give more time to my family. One Sunday one of my close friends who was unmarried at the time wanted to go watch a movie that had just been released. I told him that I could not go as I was quite busy with work these days and wanted to spend the little free time I had with my wife who was struggling with the first trimester of her pregnancy. I still remember the satirical note in my friend's voice when he said, "Yar tu to bilkul zun mureed hi ban gya hai. Sab ki shadi hoti hai, teri koi khaas hoi hai" (translation: Bro you have completely become a subservient husband. Everyone gets married but you seem to have a special marriage.